Twelve
These are not rules. They are not commandments. They are quiet agreements I’ve made with myself, over time —shaped by fire, by longing, by beauty. They are the way I stay whole in a world that pulls. The way I hold others without losing my own skin. Some were whispered by women I loved. Others I carved out of heartbreak. And all of them… are how I keep choosing my path, again and again.
Balance Connection and Self-Presence
I offer warmth, but I never abandon myself.
Even as I hold space for others, I hold my own heart just as close.Act Decisively, Let Go Easily
I make bold choices — and when the time comes, I release without clinging.
My loyalty is sacred, never stuck.Find My Communities
I gather with those whose fire matches mine.
Not just friends — mirrors. Witnesses. Kindreds.Embrace Solitude
I retreat like the moon.
Not to disappear, but to become more fully myself.
In silence, I sharpen.Learn and Apply
I don’t just collect knowledge — I embody it.
Everything I study, I weave into my hands, my words, my work.Trust My Instincts
My body knows before my mind does.
I move from the gut, from the breath, from the place beyond explanation.Prioritize Joy
Joy is not optional.
It is the compass I use when everything else gets quiet.Set Clear Boundaries
I am soft, not shapeless.
No is a sacred word. A spell that keeps my world intact.Stay Open, Stay Curious
I change like the tides, but I don’t chase novelty.
Curiosity is my compass — but my roots run deep.Live in the Moment
I arrive fully. I do not hover above the moment — I drop into it.
Trusting that whatever comes, I will meet it.Face Fear Head-On
When something trembles inside me, I listen.
Fear is often the edge of my next becoming.Value Loyalty
I give myself to those who meet me in return.
Loyalty is not martyrdom.
It is devotion with discernment.
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