Twelve

These are not rules. They are not commandments. They are quiet agreements I’ve made with myself, over time —shaped by fire, by longing, by beauty. They are the way I stay whole in a world that pulls. The way I hold others without losing my own skin. Some were whispered by women I loved. Others I carved out of heartbreak. And all of them… are how I keep choosing my path, again and again.

  1. Balance Connection and Self-Presence
    I offer warmth, but I never abandon myself.
    Even as I hold space for others, I hold my own heart just as close.

  2. Act Decisively, Let Go Easily
    I make bold choices — and when the time comes, I release without clinging.
    My loyalty is sacred, never stuck.

  3. Find My Communities
    I gather with those whose fire matches mine.
    Not just friends — mirrors. Witnesses. Kindreds.

  4. Embrace Solitude
    I retreat like the moon.
    Not to disappear, but to become more fully myself.
    In silence, I sharpen.

  5. Learn and Apply
    I don’t just collect knowledge — I embody it.
    Everything I study, I weave into my hands, my words, my work.

  6. Trust My Instincts
    My body knows before my mind does.
    I move from the gut, from the breath, from the place beyond explanation.

  7. Prioritize Joy
    Joy is not optional.
    It is the compass I use when everything else gets quiet.

  8. Set Clear Boundaries
    I am soft, not shapeless.
    No is a sacred word. A spell that keeps my world intact.

  9. Stay Open, Stay Curious
    I change like the tides, but I don’t chase novelty.
    Curiosity is my compass — but my roots run deep.

  10. Live in the Moment
    I arrive fully. I do not hover above the moment — I drop into it.
    Trusting that whatever comes, I will meet it.

  11. Face Fear Head-On
    When something trembles inside me, I listen.
    Fear is often the edge of my next becoming.

  12. Value Loyalty
    I give myself to those who meet me in return.
    Loyalty is not martyrdom.
    It is devotion with discernment.

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