I do this work because I’ve seen what happens when a woman remembers.
Remembers that her body is not broken.
That her pleasure is not a performance.
That her desire is not something to apologize for.
We were never meant to feel shame in our skin.
Never meant to swallow longing just to be loved.
And yet, here we are — a world of women who learned to close,
and men who were never taught how to truly hold.
So I became a man who listens.
Who waits.
Who studies the subtle, sacred pulse beneath the surface.
And everything I do — every session, every touch, every word — is a prayer
that says:
You’re not too much. You’re not too late. And you’re not alone.
The Fire Beneath The Ropes
My devotion is simple
To create immersive experiences where safety and surrender meet.
Where power play becomes presence.
Where your edges are not just welcomed — they are invited to dance.
To mentor those who feel the same fire I once did —
the ones who want to guide others in love, not ego.
To walk beside new practitioners, helping them anchor their gifts
in ethics, clarity, and care.
To foster clear agreements and honest communication,
because love without clarity is a fog.
And the body never fully opens when the mind feels unsafe.
To nurture a community of softness and wildness —
a space where kink is not a performance,
but a ceremony of touch, voice, tension, breath, and truth.
A temple without dogma. A lineage without chains.
To expand this work into schools, retreats, and unseen corners of the world.
So the sacred art of erotic presence can be taught,
not hidden.
Honored, not shamed.
I do this for the woman who has never been truly held.
I do this for the couple who longs for depth but doesn’t know where to begin.
I do this for the younger me —
curious, fiery, sober, and standing in a club in Berlin,
wondering why the world made pleasure so complicated.
And I do this for her —
the one reading now —
who maybe, just maybe,
feels the same ache I once did.
✦ Where to click next?
Vowing →
Sexual Energy Experience →
Mentoring Program →
Ask Me Anything
hellohandsoferos@gmail.com
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